ok this ones a bit of a long shot. I have a gmail account and regularly use googletalk thats embedded in the gmail account. When you're in a conversation
with someone with multiple tabs open the gmail tab flashes if someone messages you whilst your viewing another tab. So say im in a conversation with someone at gmail but have another tab
open and im looking at a thread at sitepoint...the gmail tab flashes orange.

Anyone know how to do things like this? Ive searched everywhere but cant find an answer!