The strongest goal in all of my life was to be free and do what I like to do, at the same time not forcing other people to take care of me and not having other people taking advantage of me or becoming dependent on me.
My goal has been met. I am married to a man who has the same principles as I have, so we ride along on a parallel rail. We are fiercely independent and value the same things. Now, to reach the goal of having what we value took a huge effort and many decisions along the way. The first one was quitting our jobs and going it on our own steam.
That of course brought out the pragmatic warnings of parents and friends, which we ignored. The idea to cling to safety and with that fritter our lives away in jobs we did not like was not what we wanted out of life. So we struggled and chomped at the bit, let our skins grow to a thickness that almost nothing can pierce, we succeeded in living our lives close to what our ideals are. We found the things that are fun to do, at the same time provide a living that suits us.
To grow a business and have it become an entity with employees was always a choice we had to make. We could have grown large but did not want to because we realized early on that it would mean to actually give up the hands on work we both love so much. So we chose to do what can be done on a small scale, that in turn gave us the freedom of working odd hours of the day, in the night, sometimes not for days. It gave us the freedom to have long breakfasts late in the morning, it gave us the freedom to go to places whenever we wanted.
It also gave us the freedom of not worrying about dependent employees in bad times. We can live easily in all sorts of conditions, but as soon as you have people that depend on you the responsibilities for them takes over and with that freedom goes away.
The most important thing to find in life I think is to find what you love to do. The thing that you love doing even if you are sick or tired, that thing you even do without getting payed for. And so my goal for the future is now to go back to painting my canvases and finding my contentment there.
I have never been a chaser of wealth, I live simply and do not need many toys. My satisfaction comes from my work done right, from my life in harmony with my spouse, from inner piece. I set my own standards for myself and how I should live. Outside opinions are not important to me, so there is never the drive to compete with the neighbor.
I am at peace with myself and the choices that I have made 