If that is how the table is then this will work (Rudy will probably come up with an easier way
SELECT
recette_1 AS recette
FROM
(
SELECT
ingredient AS ingredient_1
, recette AS recette_1
FROM
recipe
WHERE
ingredient = 'pois'
) AS ingredient_1
INNER JOIN
(
SELECT
ingredient AS ingredient_2
, recette AS recette_2
FROM
recipe
WHERE
ingredient = 'rhum'
) AS ingredient_2
ON ingredient_1.recette_1 = ingredient_2.recette_2