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	<title>Comments on: How to Differentiate Yourself from the Crowd</title>
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		<title>By: BonnyCap</title>
		<link>http://www.sitepoint.com/blogs/2009/05/14/how-to-differentiate-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-925755</link>
		<dc:creator>BonnyCap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 00:37:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>the article is ok - just the title does not fit - since the body text failed to explain &quot;how to be different&quot;; although there is masses of BS published online, we all hoped that the evil habits of OFFLINE-journalism = screaming headlines and &quot;no real content or answers&quot; underneath - would not infect the internet, - alas, we hoped in vain.

Coming to the subject at hand - when dealing with a client, showing too much enthusiasm may frighten some clients off. They may break off the conversation early just to get rid of you or refrain from taking your calls when you call too early and too often asking for a decision.

In fact, there is NO surefire GENERAL way how to handle interview situations - just as I asked a Spanish housewife for a recipe for Paella, and the mutual understanding we found after long discussions exchanging our different experiences was: there are as many good Paella recipies as there are excellent cooks - ! One for all does not fit Paella - and does not fit interviews either. But if the raw materials are fresh and of good quality, chances are great to compose a phantastic paella (interview)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>the article is ok &#8211; just the title does not fit &#8211; since the body text failed to explain &#8220;how to be different&#8221;; although there is masses of BS published online, we all hoped that the evil habits of OFFLINE-journalism = screaming headlines and &#8220;no real content or answers&#8221; underneath &#8211; would not infect the internet, &#8211; alas, we hoped in vain.</p>
<p>Coming to the subject at hand &#8211; when dealing with a client, showing too much enthusiasm may frighten some clients off. They may break off the conversation early just to get rid of you or refrain from taking your calls when you call too early and too often asking for a decision.</p>
<p>In fact, there is NO surefire GENERAL way how to handle interview situations &#8211; just as I asked a Spanish housewife for a recipe for Paella, and the mutual understanding we found after long discussions exchanging our different experiences was: there are as many good Paella recipies as there are excellent cooks &#8211; ! One for all does not fit Paella &#8211; and does not fit interviews either. But if the raw materials are fresh and of good quality, chances are great to compose a phantastic paella (interview)</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: D2m.ca</title>
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		<dc:creator>D2m.ca</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 02:51:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank You for this article

I am a freelancer myself reading this really helps.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://d2m.ca&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;d2m.ca&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank You for this article</p>
<p>I am a freelancer myself reading this really helps.</p>
<p><a href="http://d2m.ca" rel="nofollow">d2m.ca</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: praetor</title>
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		<dc:creator>praetor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 21:18:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If I had a dollar for every article that said same things about how to be &quot;different&quot; from your competitors, I&#039;d be a rich man.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If I had a dollar for every article that said same things about how to be &#8220;different&#8221; from your competitors, I&#8217;d be a rich man.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: itouch resumes</title>
		<link>http://www.sitepoint.com/blogs/2009/05/14/how-to-differentiate-yourself/comment-page-1/#comment-925570</link>
		<dc:creator>itouch resumes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 06:19:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s nothing worse than someone that over promises and under delivers...honesty is sometimes the best policy, that way expectations are realistic.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.employmentguide.com.au&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s nothing worse than someone that over promises and under delivers&#8230;honesty is sometimes the best policy, that way expectations are realistic.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.employmentguide.com.au" rel="nofollow"></a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: alexweber</title>
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		<dc:creator>alexweber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 02:01:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good article!

I always try to be candid and friendly during face to face meetings and I gotta admit sometimes I try to hard to get a smile or a laugh out of people (within context, of course) but I&#039;ve found that it goes a long way to creating bonds and making people remember you and even if I don&#039;t get that particular job I&#039;ve been called up later about other work.

Picking clients is important too I know that we can&#039;t always afford to be selective because the bills won&#039;t pay themselves but from personal experience sometimes it&#039;s OK to take a pass.

-Alex</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good article!</p>
<p>I always try to be candid and friendly during face to face meetings and I gotta admit sometimes I try to hard to get a smile or a laugh out of people (within context, of course) but I&#8217;ve found that it goes a long way to creating bonds and making people remember you and even if I don&#8217;t get that particular job I&#8217;ve been called up later about other work.</p>
<p>Picking clients is important too I know that we can&#8217;t always afford to be selective because the bills won&#8217;t pay themselves but from personal experience sometimes it&#8217;s OK to take a pass.</p>
<p>-Alex</p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>By: John M.</title>
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		<dc:creator>John M.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:26:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL, not to be mean or anything, but you guys can write a way better blog posts than that XD.

When you are under pressure, and need $$ to pay the bills, all these tips doesn&#039;t really help, sad but it&#039;s the truth :(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL, not to be mean or anything, but you guys can write a way better blog posts than that XD.</p>
<p>When you are under pressure, and need $$ to pay the bills, all these tips doesn&#8217;t really help, sad but it&#8217;s the truth :(</p>]]></content:encoded>
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