Thanks spikeZ and felgall (Stephen) for answering.
Thanks again, felgall(Stephen) for looking into my problem, your answer shows your experince and I completely agree with you so I'd love to act upon your advice
I heard a lot about sitepoint so I was very exicited and eager about my first visit, I signed up for site and forum as well and I started getting a lot of mails :-
containing messages for signup this, signup that...there were a lot of things which you can explore and in a nutshell there was a lot of propeganda and I was impressed whatever was wrrtiten in all those emails.
I started a topic on Sep 30 then till next day there was no reply, I requested to reply to my thread but again there was no reply then at last I wrote my final message and I quit.
If noone is replying to any topic then it's moderator duty to reply to that topic whereas even after requesting there was no reply.
So you shouldn't have asked me for the explanation.