I am having a big problem enabling my website's default template. Experts and Developers, please help

First thing first. Do you have access to the ftp server to change the files? If you don’t have that than there is no reason to discuss anything else since you won’t be able to change any files. Also trying to fix this yourself is probably just going to result in more issues. It sounds like no theme exists which is probably stored in configuration somewhere either the db or file system. Who knows where without being able to see any code.