I can and did. Also make a new password for it and changed it. Theoretically, s/he can’t use his username to log back in. Still can’t change the username, though.
Yes. It would be in the users and users_meta tables. Before deleting from the users table, get the user_id and look for that ID in the users_meta table and delete that row first. Then delete from the users table. You may want to change the name associated to the pages and posts to your name in the posts table if you like.
Depending on how old your WP is, the column name in wp_posts is post_author. You can delete all those posts or just leave it as is with the ID
Once you delete the user from the wp_users table, those posts will still be there but no author will be displayed. At this point, you can either delete all those posts from the wp_posts table or just put someone elses ID in the wp_posts column