Flash plugin not installing

I seem to be having multiple problems here so I will start at the beginning. I have a .flv file that I know works because i can watch it locally on my computer through adobe media player. I then used DW to create a html file with the flv file embeded (I think I am saying that right) Then I uploaded it to my server. I have several flv videos but I am just trying to get one to work for now on this page. It is the first one in the row of horizontal thumbnails. If you click on it it will temp to load the iframe with the file “talk_to_kids.html” tht has the .flv file embeded in it along with player controls. I am using Firefox and then I get a “Content on this page requires a newer version of Adobe Flash Player.” OK, so when i try to upgrade by clicking on the adobe icon. On the next screen I click on the “Agree and Install” button. The install is suppose to start automatically but it doesnt, instead I get a yellow bar at the top that says, “Additional plugins are required to display all the media on this page” so then I click on the “Install missing plugins”. The yellow bar simply goes away after clicking the button and nothing happens. ARghhhhhhh. What the heck is going on.

What frickn plugin am I missing so that I can install the correct software? Are visitors to the site going to have this same issue. They will never see the video if this is the case. Is there another alternative to playing .flv files on a web page with play controls the someone not flash savvy can incorporate?

Sorry, I am very frustrated. I have never had this isue with Firefox before.

I also tried it with Safari and IE 7 and all I get is a white screen. Nothing at all happens.

Many thanks,
Houston

Works fine in all browsers tested here

Yes, I ended up finding another solution. But the problem seemed to be with swfobject_modified.js