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    Hi Kevin,
    If you really like to this girl, first you'll interaction with her. after interaction friendship with her. then spend your time with her. share some good thinks with her. try to snack with her. show her nature. show her filling to you then you decide what you really like to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by guido2004 View Post
    Wow. I have lots of female friends on FB. Do you think they all love me?
    Of course we do! But maybe it is not the kind of love but we do love you.

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    Thanks for all answers.

    She wrote to me again today and we are kinda stuck in the "Hi, what are you doing" and we talk about these things and a bit more, then we end up not having anything to talk about.

    What would you start talking about? Would you ask her to meet someday, what would you do at that that?

    Because I would like to meet her (just as a friend even tho as you said it can go further).

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    Quote Originally Posted by kvnwpts View Post
    What would you start talking about?
    Look for shared interests you two may have. Ask what she likes and go on from there - music, movies, whatever.

    Quote Originally Posted by kvnwpts View Post
    Would you ask her to meet someday, what would you do at that that?
    I think you should start talking in person asap. Chatting online and chatting in person are two different things, especially if you want to take this to another level. I understand you already see each other occasionally so why not strike up a conversation then. It doesn't have to be a date. Find a topic you can talk about online then carry on that conversation next time you see her in person.
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    I think she wants to make friend with you. But the best thing that you can do is to ask her directly your question to us so that you'll now the truth and maybe you satisfy and not expect too much of her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by molona View Post
    the kind of love

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    Quote Originally Posted by kwnwpts
    Because I would like to meet her (just as a friend even tho as you said it can go further).
    hey, hold the horses there

    If you read the whole thread you will see that we said that there could be a possibility that she fancies you... but it may be that you're making a fuzz of nothing and that she simply wants to be a friend. Too many factors involved to know what she wants.

    Now, if she does fancy you and you want to take it to another level even when she has a boyfriend... Well, I guess this is a free world and we all complicate our lives the way we want to but don't even tell me because I wouldn't have much respect for you (or her)

    Quote Originally Posted by staceybrown281 View Post
    But the best thing that you can do is to ask her directly your question to us so that you'll now the truth and maybe you satisfy and not expect too much of her.
    I completely agree

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    Quote Originally Posted by conradical View Post
    She wants your kidney. It is clear.
    Totally with you there. It's all about the damn kidneys with chicks.

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    Hey Kevin, here's some advice that you probably won't heed, but which a good mentor would give you: Get your head down, concentrate on your studies, and forget about girls for another ten years or so!

    What you've described is flirtatious, hormonal frivolity—a waste of your time and hers.

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    NOOOO, do NOT fall into the friend zone.

    If you like her, never fall into the friend trap...if you do you will always be friends and hard to advance from their.

    How old are you? Having a boyfriend in college means nothing. She will move on...

    Listen, go read David DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating". Great book that will change your view of meeting women.

    But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.

    Play hard-to-get and seem busy. Alwasys cut the conversation short and do not make yourself available or reply right away. But be funny and cool about it. Dont be a d#ick.

    She obviously likes you. And there is a reason she is interested. Because you didnt reply right away on Facebook. If you were all over her and messagered every 5 minutes she would run for the hills. Make sense?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ralph.m View Post
    Hey Kevin, here's some advice that you probably won't heed, but which a good mentor would give you: Get your head down, concentrate on your studies, and forget about girls for another ten years or so!

    What you've described is flirtatious, hormonal frivolity—a waste of your time and hers.
    This is my second option lol. But, cmon he is a kid. We were all there...

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    Quote Originally Posted by greggootz View Post
    But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.
    Ahhh, nothing says "I like you" better than hitting her with a club in the head
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    Quote Originally Posted by php_daemon View Post
    nothing says "I like you" better than hitting her with a club in the head
    Yup, girls love that.

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    It`s sometimes difficult to undestand what a girl want
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    She obviously likes you and if not for her boyfriend, she would have told you that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greggootz View Post
    NOOOO, do NOT fall into the friend zone.

    If you like her, never fall into the friend trap...if you do you will always be friends and hard to advance from their.

    ...

    But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.
    Nonsense. I've been happily married to my best friend for many years, and we were friends for seven years prior to that. I can't imagine having that type of relationship with somebody I didn't class as a friend first.
    Don't serve your porridge and then go out for a walk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TechnoBear View Post
    Nonsense. I've been happily married to my best friend for many years, and we were friends for seven years prior to that. I can't imagine having that type of relationship with somebody I didn't class as a friend first.
    That is great news. Congratulations. You are very lucky.

    Now don't me wrong. I not saying it can't happen. I said it if you become friends "...hard to advance from their". From my past experiences, I found that setting the tone right away works best...

    And of coarse, there needs to be companionship. But seeming "desperate" early on has ruined many beautiful relationships before they have ever begun...

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    Quote Originally Posted by greggootz View Post
    Play hard-to-get and seem busy.
    If you can't be honest, what's the point?

    But, cmon he is a kid. We were all there...
    No, I was never a kid.

    We may all have been there, but it doesn't mean we didn't need some good advice.

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    Why don't you just be friends with her and see what will happen after..

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    Quote Originally Posted by akritic View Post
    Totally with you there. It's all about the damn kidneys with chicks.
    So now that you're married what does that mean? Is it that you get to keep the kidneys to yourself because you only have one chick? or is it that she has your kidneys?

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    Did yu close the deal yet, just tell her what you want

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    Quote Originally Posted by vincevirzi View Post
    Did yu close the deal yet
    So now it is a deal...

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    She wants to make the relationships with you for a long time in the future.but she can't express her feelings with you.you should talk to her about that.

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    i think for friendship....

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    She wants to be your friend


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