What does this girl want?

**aumshah** · Sep 15, 2012 00:06

Hi Kevin,
If you really like to this girl, first you'll interaction with her. after interaction friendship with her. then spend your time with her. share some good thinks with her. try to snack with her. show her nature. show her filling to you then you decide what you really like to do.

**molona** · Sep 15, 2012 01:57

Originally Posted by guido2004

Wow. I have lots of female friends on FB. Do you think they all love me?

Of course we do! But maybe it is not the

kind of love but we do love you.

**kvnwpts** · Sep 16, 2012 05:09

Thanks for all answers.

She wrote to me again today and we are kinda stuck in the "Hi, what are you doing" and we talk about these things and a bit more, then we end up not having anything to talk about.

What would you start talking about? Would you ask her to meet someday, what would you do at that that?

Because I would like to meet her (just as a friend even tho as you said it can go further).

**php_daemon** · Sep 16, 2012 06:40

Originally Posted by kvnwpts

What would you start talking about?

Look for shared interests you two may have. Ask what she likes and go on from there - music, movies, whatever.

Originally Posted by kvnwpts

Would you ask her to meet someday, what would you do at that that?

I think you should start talking in person asap. Chatting online and chatting in person are two different things, especially if you want to take this to another level. I understand you already see each other occasionally so why not strike up a conversation then. It doesn't have to be a date. Find a topic you can talk about online then carry on that conversation next time you see her in person.

**staceybrown281** · Sep 16, 2012 07:48

I think she wants to make friend with you. But the best thing that you can do is to ask her directly your question to us so that you'll now the truth and maybe you satisfy and not expect too much of her.

**guido2004** · Sep 16, 2012 07:51

Originally Posted by molona

the

kind of love

**molona** · Sep 16, 2012 09:14

Originally Posted by kwnwpts

Because I would like to meet her (just as a friend even tho as you said it can go further).

hey, hold the horses there

If you read the whole thread you will see that we said that there could be a possibility that she fancies you... but it may be that you're making a fuzz of nothing and that she simply wants to be a friend. Too many factors involved to know what she wants.

Now, if she does fancy you and you want to take it to another level even when she has a boyfriend... Well, I guess this is a free world and we all complicate our lives the way we want to but don't even tell me because I wouldn't have much respect for you (or her)

Originally Posted by staceybrown281

But the best thing that you can do is to ask her directly your question to us so that you'll now the truth and maybe you satisfy and not expect too much of her.

I completely agree

**akritic** · Sep 16, 2012 15:27

Originally Posted by conradical

She wants your kidney. It is clear.

Totally with you there. It's all about the damn kidneys with chicks.

**ralph.m** · Sep 16, 2012 16:01

Hey Kevin, here's some advice that you probably won't heed, but which a good mentor would give you: Get your head down, concentrate on your studies, and forget about girls for another ten years or so!

What you've described is flirtatious, hormonal frivolity—a waste of your time and hers.

**greggootz** · Sep 22, 2012 21:08

NOOOO, do NOT fall into the friend zone.

If you like her, never fall into the friend trap...if you do you will always be friends and hard to advance from their.

How old are you? Having a boyfriend in college means nothing. She will move on...

Listen, go read David DeAngelo's "Double Your Dating". Great book that will change your view of meeting women.

But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.

Play hard-to-get and seem busy. Alwasys cut the conversation short and do not make yourself available or reply right away. But be funny and cool about it. Dont be a d#ick.

She obviously likes you. And there is a reason she is interested. Because you didnt reply right away on Facebook. If you were all over her and messagered every 5 minutes she would run for the hills. Make sense?

**greggootz** · Sep 22, 2012 21:09

Originally Posted by ralph.m

Hey Kevin, here's some advice that you probably won't heed, but which a good mentor would give you: Get your head down, concentrate on your studies, and forget about girls for another ten years or so!

What you've described is flirtatious, hormonal frivolity—a waste of your time and hers.

This is my second option lol. But, cmon he is a kid. We were all there...

**php_daemon** · Sep 22, 2012 23:01

Originally Posted by greggootz

But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.

Ahhh, nothing says "I like you" better than hitting her with a club in the head

**ralph.m** · Sep 22, 2012 23:48

Originally Posted by php_daemon

nothing says "I like you" better than hitting her with a club in the head

Yup, girls love that.

**zorges** · Sep 22, 2012 23:50

It`s sometimes difficult to undestand what a girl want

**backlinksrocksta** · Sep 23, 2012 04:11

She obviously likes you and if not for her boyfriend, she would have told you that.

**TechnoBear** · Sep 23, 2012 04:28

Originally Posted by greggootz

NOOOO, do NOT fall into the friend zone.

If you like her, never fall into the friend trap...if you do you will always be friends and hard to advance from their.

...

But, I repeat...if you like her, do not be friends.

Nonsense.

I've been happily married to my best friend for many years, and we were friends for seven years prior to that. I can't imagine having that type of relationship with somebody I didn't class as a friend first.

**greggootz** · Sep 23, 2012 08:32

Originally Posted by TechnoBear

Nonsense.

I've been happily married to my best friend for many years, and we were friends for seven years prior to that. I can't imagine having that type of relationship with somebody I didn't class as a friend first.

That is great news. Congratulations. You are very lucky.

Now don't me wrong. I not saying it can't happen. I said it if you become friends "...hard to advance from their". From my past experiences, I found that setting the tone right away works best...

And of coarse, there needs to be companionship. But seeming "desperate" early on has ruined many beautiful relationships before they have ever begun...

**ralph.m** · Sep 23, 2012 08:55

Originally Posted by greggootz

Play hard-to-get and seem busy.

If you can't be honest, what's the point?

But, cmon he is a kid. We were all there...

No, I was never a kid.

We may all have been there, but it doesn't mean we didn't need some good advice.

**summerazing** · Sep 23, 2012 21:55

Why don't you just be friends with her and see what will happen after..

**molona** · Sep 23, 2012 23:49

Originally Posted by akritic

Totally with you there. It's all about the damn kidneys with chicks.

So now that you're married what does that mean? Is it that you get to keep the kidneys to yourself because you only have one chick? or is it that she has your kidneys?

**vincevirzi** · Sep 24, 2012 19:55

Did yu close the deal yet, just tell her what you want

**molona** · Sep 25, 2012 01:07

Originally Posted by vincevirzi

Did yu close the deal yet

So now it is a deal...

**chillboy** · Sep 25, 2012 05:12

She wants to make the relationships with you for a long time in the future.but she can't express her feelings with you.you should talk to her about that.

**kimberlly1** · Sep 25, 2012 21:48

i think for friendship....

**cathymartin** · Sep 26, 2012 00:02

She wants to be your friend

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