uh? so you have three tables...
your_products
| your_prodict_id | your stuff
their_products
| their_product_id | their stuff |
cross_reference
| your_product_id | their product_id |
I don't know how to write the query but I think you should want to select those products in their table, which do not match their product_id in your cross_reference table.
pseudo code..
Code:
select their_product_id
from their_table
WHERE their_product_id NOT IN
( SELECT their_product_id
FROM cross_reference
)
hth
bazz
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