I've been to three other forums and they were anly able to help me a bit.

see some one gave me this code it works well but I wanted to add something else. what I added should work but wont. I got a bit of help from another forum and they were able to find out if the href value from the clicked links made it to the var retry. Turns out it's undefined unless it's window.retry

but it still seams that the player doesn't get the value.
here's the code. I was worrkied it wasnt set up right.
code I was givven awile ago
what I added
the way I was told to set it up


<body>
<a class="linksclass2" href="http://www.fileden.com/files/2006/11/20/398972/lupe%20fiasco%20-%20kick%20push.mp3">


<script type="text/javascript">
action=new Object();
action.linksclass1=function(e){
var el=window.event&&window.event.srcElement? window.event.srcElement : e&&e.target? e.target : null;
var retry=el.href;

if(el)
alert(el.innerHTML);
return false;
}

action.linksclass2=function(){
document.getElementById("misterioProgram").style.display="block";
document.embeds["newE"]["src"] =retry ;
document.getElementsByTagName("param")[0].value =retry;


return false;
}
var theas=document.getElementsByTagName('a');
for (var i_tem = 0; i_tem < theas.length; i_tem++)
theas[i_tem].onclick=action[theas[i_tem].className];

</script>

<div id="misterioProgram">


<h1 id="vidh">the video page</h1>
<p id="vidp">it will take some time to load</p>
<div id="MTVplayer">
<object id="fileObj" width="300" height="450"
classid="CLSID:22d6f312-b0f6-11d0-94ab-0080c74c7e95"
codebase="http://activex.microsoft.com/activex/controls/mplayer/en/nsmp2inf.cab#Version=5,1,52,701"
standby="Loading Microsoft Windows Media Player components..." type="application/x-oleobject">
<param name="fileName" value="">
<param name="autoStart" value="true">
<param name="showControls" value="true">
<param name="loop" value="false">
<param name="uiMode" value="full">
<embed id="fileEmb" type="application/x-mplayer2"
src=""
ShowControls="1"
width="235"
height="160">
</embed>
</object>
</div>


<!--the big div-->
<div id="ChooseSeason" align="left" >
<!--the div of the navi-->
<div id="Mtt1" class="theSeasons">
<!--the div for teen titans season one Mtt one-->
<ul>
<li> Teen Titans Season 3 </li>

<a href="http://www.fileden.com/files/2006/11/20/398972/Seal%20-%20Kiss%20From
%20A%20Rose.mp3" onclick="misterio(); return false;"
>the end part one</a>


</ul>

</div> <!--end of the teen titans div-->
</div> <!--end of nav div-->



</div>


</body>