Lost savings... so how to tell wife?

[SoCalled]

This comes to mind

A man comes home from an exhausting day at work, plops down on the couch
in front of the television, and tells his wife, "Get me a beer before it
starts!"

The wife sighs and gets him a beer.

Ten minutes later, he says, "Get me another beer before it starts!"

She looks cross, but fetches another beer and slams it down next to him.

He finishes that beer and a few minutes later says, "Quick, get me
another beer, it's going to start any minute!"

The wife is furious. She yells at him "Is that all you're going to do
tonight! Drink beer and sit in front of that TV! You're nothing but a
lazy, drunken, fat slob, and furthermore..."

The man sighs and says, "It's started..."

Okay may not be the best advice in the World, but let's hope you got a smile from it

[sputza]

I would tell her. You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t. Suck it up and tell her. Besides, if you’re almost married, you’re never going to get any after you get married anyways... so you might want to get used to it

[conradical]

this is how.

"(name here) I lost some of our savings. It was a mistake and I promise I will never do it again...


..now please stop beating me"



kidding. If a relationship has elements of fear, distrust or anything negative or hidden, it's really not deep. For a relationship to grow, both have to open up and be vulnerable. It means being honest to each other. It also means that both have to work on creating an atmosphere where one can talk, else both will always have the fear that they cannot say the truth cause the other is going to flip which will cause both, you and your partner to hide things from each other.

that is not a deep relationship. One that one you would not want to have with your future wife.

[sputza]

this is how.

"(name here) I lost some of our savings. It was a mistake and I promise I will never do it again"

add to the end, "please dont kill me"