Are my questions too complicated? Am I writing in Chinese unknowingly?

I have gotten a bit of help on one or two of my questions, but they didn't get fully resolved, then people drifted away... Good intentions I know, but there are many distractions and many people needing help here, not to mention our lives intruding all the time. I do understand.

I decided to get pro-active and put the links to my biggest questions in my sig to get some help, but that hasn't worked either. I think that people only look at the first page of posts, so as it gets pushed down you get lost...

I don't want to re-post, I know that is bad etiquette, but I do really need some help!

Any ideas?