I just set up a jabber account, just out of curiousity really, and I added myself to my buddy list. However, even though I am logged in I don't show up on my buddy list...but I can still chat with myself! I was wondering if anyone else uses Jabber and would be kind enough to send me a message just so I can if if I didn't screw this up. My Jabber ID is stymiee@jabber.org.