I'm not sure I understand your question entirely, but I just point to the file locally, like include("file.inc"), or include("../file.inc"), or include("directory/file.inc")
The path for an include in PHP is just like the source for an image. If the file to include is in the same directory as the calling file, it will be include("file.inc").
If the file to include is one directory higher, as in...
then the include would look like include("../file.inc"). The "../" tells PHP to look one directory or level higher than the file that wants the include.
Or, if the file to include is in a directory one level lower, as in
Hope you're getting all this. If I haven't confused you enough, here's a good one. If the PHP file and the file to include are each in seperate directories, like this...
I haven't a clue as to why your troubles are happening. Sounds very strange to me. I'll have to leave it to someone with more experience to answer this one.
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